girl friend drama

So it's come to my attention that most girls are frenemies. We envy each other on the daily basis and there's no valid reason why. Not liking someone because they have what you don't isn't a valid reason - its stupid. No matter what you think now, there will be a day where you will need those girl friends to call at 4am.

Here's the thing, as much as we like to think that we're entitled to our independence - and we are - it's not always about that. Why do you think guys get along so well?? They bond quickly and forgive quickly. So why is it that us girls like to hold grudges? I'll be the first to admit that there is a little crazy is all girls, but thats what makes us different. There's little bit crazy so you're different and then there's out of this world crazy psycho bitch crazy. But we need to forgive easily and move on. I've realized that the girls I hang out with now are guys trapped inside girls bodies.

We've all lived through the inevitable drama of highschool and college, but its time to move on. All I need to know is that my girls are going to be there for me at the end of the day. So this blog is a shout out to my girls that help eliminate most of the drama in my life and make it worth while: OB, LN, ND, JC, IK, DC, LD, JO <3

Take care of your girls cause they are the only ones that will care for you if things ever go south...

twilight fever

I personally am not a huge twilight fan but i must say that I'm always curious about what the hype is all about. So call it a moment of weakness and maybe just a chance to see Kellan Lutz - but I went to go see Eclipse the other day. Now here's my review:

1 star out of 4....at most.

Why? Well, Kristen Stewart just acts awkward - not that it's anything new, in person or on screen. Robert Pattinson just ruins the Edward Cullen persona - which is VERY upsetting because he has such an intriguing personality and mystery about him. And to be honest, Taylor Lautner is the only person that can act and do a good job of it - at least with his character. So if I had five thumbs, I would give Taylor five thumbs up. Now the one star is mainly because out of the three main characters, only one can really act. The Cullen family did an amazing job as always so a little bit of credit should be given to them...Overall, stick to the books - the only character I could picture as someone in the books is Taylor as Mister Jacob Black. Good Job Taylor and at this point, go team Jacob.

until next time...

dance dance dance

I went today to an all day dance program at drive dance center. Its my first time in a while since ive danced and let me tell you guys how i LOVE the aching feeling and the 'i cannot move out of my seat' feeling. I miss it. The hard times Im going to have getting up tomorrow morning is going to be amazing! Just thought it was a good update and blog worthy to let you all know that im back to dancing...and volleyball...and working out!!!

yay summer!

new man or no man?

This my friends is my new dilemma. I've come to a point in my life - finally - where I'm not dealing with drama due to men. Mainly because there are none right now. Who would have thought that I could be just as happy without one - if not happier. It's an odd realization because it feels like you always want someone to be happy WITH you...or is it that you just want someone to BE with you? This little crossroad has got me thinking...

Look for a new man or leave things that way they are right now and remain with no man? There are obviously perks to both. With a new man, you can enjoy each others company - that is what its all about isnt it? You can experience compassion and passion, trust, and if you're lucky - a thing called love. But what's wrong with being single?? absolutely nothing.

Being single doesn't mean you're not worth anything because no one is with you. It means that you have time to figure yourself out. What's the rush in meeting someone so early? chances are you still have time to change. Your 20's shouldn't be spent trying to find a man...rather than trying to find yourself. I'm sick and tired of meeting and getting attached to men that are long on charisma and short on character. If you take this time to mature and get to know yourself, chances are that later down the road you'll find yourself surrounded by the kind of people that reflect you. So really, there's no rush. Take your time, enjoy your youth and don't beat yourself up that you 'can't' find a man. It's a shame that they don't already see how amazing you are...

xox

gotta love photoshoots!!

Sometimes, my friends and i have a little too much time on our hands and we like to do things like take random photos!! From that day, here are some of the photos I'm absolutely in LOVE with.