new man or no man?

This my friends is my new dilemma. I've come to a point in my life - finally - where I'm not dealing with drama due to men. Mainly because there are none right now. Who would have thought that I could be just as happy without one - if not happier. It's an odd realization because it feels like you always want someone to be happy WITH you...or is it that you just want someone to BE with you? This little crossroad has got me thinking...

Look for a new man or leave things that way they are right now and remain with no man? There are obviously perks to both. With a new man, you can enjoy each others company - that is what its all about isnt it? You can experience compassion and passion, trust, and if you're lucky - a thing called love. But what's wrong with being single?? absolutely nothing.

Being single doesn't mean you're not worth anything because no one is with you. It means that you have time to figure yourself out. What's the rush in meeting someone so early? chances are you still have time to change. Your 20's shouldn't be spent trying to find a man...rather than trying to find yourself. I'm sick and tired of meeting and getting attached to men that are long on charisma and short on character. If you take this time to mature and get to know yourself, chances are that later down the road you'll find yourself surrounded by the kind of people that reflect you. So really, there's no rush. Take your time, enjoy your youth and don't beat yourself up that you 'can't' find a man. It's a shame that they don't already see how amazing you are...

xox