rule #2: drunk calling and texting - not a good idea. Through a friends experience, when you think you called or texted once...chances are you did it 30 times. bad idea.
rule #3: if a guy wants to call you, he will. Its called a game - play it or you'll lose every time.
rule #4: don't place any more importance on a guy that doesn't give a crap about you. It's not going to change how he feels about you. You're probably just going to get walked all over and taken advantage of.
rule #5: fun is good but if you like the guy, don't give in. Once he gets what it wants, he'll peace. At least make him work for it. If he cares enough, he will work for it. No guy wants to waste time on a girl wondering if he's going to get some or not.
exception: it is very possible that every one of us ladies are an exception to some extent - but we have to stop listening to these stories of how we had a friend who knew somebody that was in the same situation as us and it worked out. As much as I hate to say it, we are the rule - unless otherwise stated.
If we assume that we are the rule, maybe one day there will be a guy that sees us as the exception. Stop putting ourselves up on the pedestal and thinking that we are going to be the exception. If it happens, it will happen - there's not much that we can do about that but just wait...
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