So speaking to a friend earlier tonight...talking about, well to be frank, girl talk. Relationships are so hard sometimes. There's the two actual people involved, and everyone else that decides that its their business as well. Because of these people, mixed messages start to storm in. Whether it be about the ex, other girls/boys, what he/she said, what they are doing...and the list goes on and on. The point is that the only two people that know whats going on in the relationship are those two people..and it should stay that way. As much as your friends go up to you for advice on a relationship situation, it isn't your laundry to do. You, at no means, should be putting yourself in a situation where you are not directly involved.
Honestly, i wish that people would get that. You turn to your friends because you trust that they will keep it to themselves. Unfortunately, life isn't all gummy bears and disco balls. So gossip is going to happen no matter what, because its human behavior. It's never set in stone and emotions make things extremely difficult. Roll with the punches and if it knocks you down, you know that your friends will be there to pick you up and help you put it back together.
And if youre in a situation where you're VERY unsure - kinda like myself - go with the flow and make intentions clear. Once intentions are made clear, things will just fall into place and you'll either be left standing in the rain or in someone's arms. There are going to be awkward moments where both of you don't know whats going on...but thats life. Not everything needs to be or will be perfect. Just know that when you think you're at your lowest, things usually pick up. Like I've said many times before, keep your head up and look forward - thats where you want to be.
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