clingy?

So I bring this up because I am apparently clingy according to some people aka a certain someone whos name shall not be mentioned. What classifies this term of clingy-ness?? From what I understand, it means not leaving someone alone. Not allowing them to have their own life. Talking to them and bugging them all the time about what they are doing, going to do, or did. With that in mind, let me tell you my situation very briefly because if its the long version, my fingers will start to hurt from typing so much...

situation:
I've known this guy for about 3 months - most of you that read this know who it is. So within these past 3 months, the last 2 months, I haven't initiated anything - conversations, hang outs, trips...nothing! Everytime we talk, he's the one thats the first to say hi, ask me how im doing, ask me what im doing, etc. - you get the idea. Two weeks ago, his friend had lunch with my friend - even though we're all friends. Apparently I was a topic of conversation. And on top of that, it was brought up that this guy told his friend that he was looking for a one night stand when he met me and now im being clingy.

Okay, so lets assess this situation here. Like I said before, I haven't initiated anything with this guy over the past 2 months...and yet I'M the clingy one??? excuse me?...am I missing something here?? He's the one thats been telling me to let him know if I go on a trip so he can 'tag along' (were his words exactly). He's the one that texts me all the time to figure out what I'm doing or what i did. Mind you, these words my have been fiddled around with before they got to me, but there has to be some truth to it. People don't just make up stuff like that - do they??

So with that being said - this is my farewell to him. If he's going to be telling lies about my 'relationship' with him, I'm done. Am I wrong to think this??