and they say we're complicated

Let's start this out plain and simple: men are hypocrites and complicated - at least the majority of them. I don't understand what on earth possess them to think that we are the ones that have complex minds they can't read. Women and men are really one in the same. We have the same problems, the same complaints, the same situations. Yet, we - as ladies - think that to be able to beat men at their own game, we have to date like one. I don't know, but i would assume that this has never crossed a man's mind. Why?

Well the answer is actually quite simple. Men have two heads - to be blunt - and they can only think with one at a time. Women have one - making us unable to stop our thought process. I find it ironic - just a little bit - that men have this double standard. I was conversing with a friend today and the subject came up. We discussed the situation at hand and this is what we came up with:

Men state that they don't want a slut. I mean fair enough, i wouldn't want a slut either. BUT, here's the catch, they don't want a serious relationship - just someone they can fool around with in the mean time. Yes, that's right ladies - I'm very confused myself. How can someone claim that they don't want to 'date' a slut when really, all they want in piece. Someone please tell me how that does NOT constitute as a slut?

And on top of that matter, they assume that it's okay for them to sleep around with as many people as they want - and they get praised for it, but heaven forbid a girl do it. When a girl sleeps around, she in in turn labeled a slut. Whatever the issue is, us ladies never get the upper hand.

The fact of the matter is, this little thought process is not by any means a state of overthinking. It's a state of logic. By no means am i saying that all men are like this - because I'm sure there are legitimate men out there that still live by the rules of chivalry. For those of you that don't agree with me, that's just fine. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I'm still a firm believer that there are people out there that will go out of their way for their friends, companions, family and so on for no apparent reason - just to be a nice person. Why? Because I'm still like that myself despite all the bad relationships.

Keep your head up ladies - I'm sure prince charming is out there somewhere.



xox