first order of business being 21

So I've decided that the first order of business is to forget about men - or at least try to. I know ladies, easier said than done but what you don't realize is that we lose either way. Take this for example:

scenario 1 - we make them wait.

outcome - They stick around and do all this sweet, lovey dovey stuff that we obviously fall for. We give them piece, and they peace.

scenario 2 - we give into temptation (which I'm sure we've done in one point or another)

outcome - they STILL peace.

What I'm trying to get at is that either way, we don't win - as much as we would like to think otherwise. Now by no means am I saying that there are no good men out there, don't get me wrong. But here's the thing, women are attracted to the 'tough guy', 'bad boy', whatever you want to call it image. These are my thoughts on how everyone gets jaded in the end.

It always starts with girls when they are young and naive and think that the world is a magical kingdom. Too bad for the princess girl, she's attracted to the 'bad boy'. The boy - being bad and all - ends up screwing her over (because he really doesn't know otherwise). Because of this, the girl is now jaded and pretty much is out to seek revenge for everything that this one boy did to her....and the cycle begins.

My thoughts right now - being legal everywhere and all, i like to think that i may be a little wiser - are that let the boys (and by boys i really mean men) come to me. The thing to remember is that you need to put yourself first and trust your gut feeling, it's usually right.

xox